Who I am, so far

Hi! My name is Bria Servoss (she/her). I’m a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC), Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional (CSTIP), and Mental Health Consultant (MHC) in Madison, WI who hails from the woods, lakes, & rivers of “up-north”.

Much of my adulthood was formed in Chicago - singing my way through its bars, venues & queer burlesque clubs while working as a hairstylist to make ends meet. During that time of general mayhem, I fell in love with the existential writings of Camus & de Beauvoir, and earned my undergrad degree with honors, majoring in Psychology and minoring in Women & Gender Studies.

Almost a decade later, after attending grad school at UW-Whitewater for counseling, I graduated in 2022 with more clarity in my philosophy & intent as clinician: both existential & feminist, a bit tarot-inspired & Jungian.

Like everyone, I’m also constantly educated simply through living - a humbling process which is certainly not simple, but thus far has offered me insight and (thankfully) some wisdom. I have activist/ally roots, starting from a young age, and value the empowerment which comes from empowering others. That said, I also have a sense of humor. There is an alchemy that occurs when we find the light in the darkness - life requires levity.

These days, I live near a marsh of wild things with my blended family of mostly-domesticated humans & animals. I love the mystical & natural world, that which is strange & curious, finding connections & freedoms that do not seem obvious at face-value, and discovering new things about all the stuff I love.

You can hear a bit of me here during a chat I was invited to have with Jeremy Schumacher, fellow therapist and host of the podcast Your Therapist Needs Therapy (September 2024).

I specialize in:

•couples & open relationships (polyamory, consensual non-monogamy)

•life during/after divorce or large break-up

•women’s & LBGTQ+ issues

•shame, sexuality, & sexual wellness

•emotional & psychological abuse recovery

•step-parenting struggles

•women & ADHD

•trauma

I am sex-positive, ENM-aware/knowledgable, sex worker-allied/aware, & kink-aware.

My approach.

I work through an existential and feminist lens. In session, I find incredible value in working to uncover each individual’s unique voice in order to find empowerment and courage. We may take winding paths to answers, dots along the way to make sense of what is happening for you.

In a comfortable, nonjudgmental, and safe space, you will be able to work through the pieces of your life which might feel too big or challenging to do alone. I will be there with you, holding space, actively listening, offering insights & possibility, and gently challenging perspective in order to help you see things a little differently, and with more clarity. 

I come from a place of compassion and curiosity; my approach is trauma-informed and culturally-sensitive. I believe that you are the expert on your own life. I challenge my clients to take the necessary risks to evolve in order to uncover their truest selves.

I am honored to be a part of that process.

Techniques

Some techniques I use are based in existential-humanistic therapy, feminist therapy, Imago Dialogue, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), mindfulness, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and the Socratic Method.

Credential Certifications

•Certified Sex Therapy Informed Professional (CSTIP) (July 2024)

•Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy (August 2024)

•Cognitive Processing Therapy Certification (CPT) (August 2021)